Yes, you fell into that trap even the best of us falls into, Marco -- you fell in love -- yikes! ...there's not a whole lot of getting used to it, and no matter how many partners we inter : ) love comes in but a tiny percentage, so it is both rare and takes a lifetime to master...and then there's the nature of it - lol -- what hope does one have?! -- All that said, I agree with the boundary's thing, but you were in a very difficult situation --

...and seems you still haven't availed yourself completely