Uwen -- I hope you live in the confines of cherry tree delight again -- and soon -- how dare that heavy weight champion not allow you back up from the canvas -- just because you had Ivy League aspirations -- perhaps a bad move, Uwen -- unortunately, your wife did too! -- but seems you have learned from that small error -- you are a brilliant writer -- this piece is dotted with bells and whistles, without over-emphasising -- articulated poetically yet precisely -- I wish you much success on Medium, my friend!