omg -- your aunt's stroke is a wakeup call -- but also Alsheimer's would be a bridge too far -- probably best to have that button to push! One can see why certain folks oppose it -- and you can't blame them, from what I've witnessed there would be many an offspring ready to push the button on a wealthy parent -- most old people don't get visits - ever! Then the organized religious types will always oppose -- knowing exactly what God wants and all! Great piece Charles!