omg -- You raise profound questions, Dr Fatima -- who is objectively in the right and by how many degrees? -- as we are blind to our own biases - especially in such a relationship as this -- unless it is blindingly obvious, but even then, there is doubt -- and how does the wife forge a relationship with a judgmental, or otherwise, mother-in-law? -- seems she is often behind the eight ball -- All traits obtainable by only the greatest illusionists I'm afraid ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯