omg -- once you let that little tiger out of the bag anything could eventuate - 🐯 -- no not you Jessey! lol -- I mean Elaine's hubby would be beside himself wondering how that might play out -- people would fall in love for a short while or permanently -- Marriage has to be backed up by the state and social etiquette essentially, it worked in the 50s -- lol -- but ever since boomers what hope is there? ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯That said, I agree with you Jessey -- but when women initiate it, it can be a little different -- "a little" -- well "a lot" -- women can fall into situations easily -- hence their propensity to get into big trouble -- lol -- so that would have to be a red flag for certain men -- if only we didn't have emotions it would be just perfect!