No not silly, Lucy -- it's part of your passionate makeup I suspect! 😎 -- I currently feel a little sorry for Amber Heard -- that said, women are not always in the right, but have the right of way [so to speak] - more benefits-of-doubt -- probably quite rightly, but I have had girlfriends, one in particular who was obsessive and emotionally abusive - I left her and she kinda stalked me -- not that I was overly worried [because I wasn't going back to her] but she would have it that I somehow abused her -- essentially from not loving her -- which is crazy - she should have seen it for what it was, left me or let me leave her -- but she couldn't for some reason! But as I say she would swear blind that I was at fault - so how can a jury or anybody else really say!