It's amazing we sometimes trip over something that does wonders for our well-being, even if it's against our natural inclinations -- usually because of THOSE type friends -- lol -- I must say, depression would be an awful thing to be around, I agree, but some people are that way inclined I guess -- so you have to feel for them -- I also believe in loyalty -- but, in light of all this, I still think you probably made the right move, I'm sure Susan -