It's a matter of individuality I guess Jessey -- whilst on the one hand I can understand a man's need for proof if possible -- and it is in the modern age -- I think this is just an age-old thing as long as man has been locking up women to make sure 😎 or if in China, having their feet bound -- they ain't goin anywheres! -- No but really, if I was in your shoes -- I would be the same as you -- that's my personality as well!