I think everybody is waiting on some kind of magic button to appear, Esther -- some people lie to themselves -- they think they'll win the lottery [both literally and metaphorically, for love and such]. the rude truth is like you say, it is up to us to get out of that goddamn bed and somehow find that goddamn button...woops, getting carried away! Find ourselves by taking action 🌟😎 Excellent piece Esther!