I agree, Lanu -- -- the victim mentality infuriates me -- -- they've lost the fight before they even begin -- -- I suspect that's what they want -- of course, some people are victims, but they must be bigger than their victimhood if they want to thrive -- sometimes it takes an epiphany! [even if one's not overly conscious of it] -- but it certainly takes a new way of thinking -- and that thinking needs to be as far away from victimhood as possible!