Don't cry Darin -- Yes, you should have tried harder, but it's not your fault - you fell in love and thought everybody could see how beautiful she was...next minute you spotted her down on Figueroa with her bum hanging out and a pipe in her gob...as they say

¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯ -- matters not, there's plenty of fish in the sea